After I returned from the UAE, of course I was ready to embark on a new journey somewhere new within 24 hours. Unfortunately, I couldn’t because like most of us humans we have to work. While I love my job as a Pediatric Occupational therapist and it gives me much satisfaction helping children with Autism and Developmental delays. There was still something missing. Everyday I felt very productive and accomplished as I observed much progress with my patients day after day. I love the little faces, smiles and laughter I get to see everyday. I love seeing that invisible lightbulb go off in their head when they finally understand something that they have been working on or practicing for days, weeks, months; sometimes even years. However, everyday I still felt somewhat incomplete. I spent the next 2 years working and taking 5-7 day trips to Mexico and the states, to places like Maryland, Virginia Beach, North Carolina, Florida, Tennessee, Mississippi and of course, New Orleans. All of these places hold a special place in my heart because of family or friends. So its always nice to go and have a good time. Every time I visit and return home I feel a little bit more whole, more complete, more serene.
This last trip to Mexico was my 5th time in Mexico. I think Mexico is a good international destination for first time international travelers and young adults. My first time is Mexico was in Cancun of course for my high school graduation and with my mom of course. I guess you can say Mexico also has a little special place in my heart. Consequently, this last trip in Mexico I said would by last for a while, as I felt that I needed to see much more of the world. There is so much to see. And this is where my current Rule #1 came to be.
Rule #1: Never travel to the same place twice (The Bahamas, is an exception to the rule 🙂
This rule led me to St. Maarten, Puerto Rico, back to the Bahamas, and to the Dominican Republic in May 2016 and June 2016. (Read my post on each destination for more tips and information COMING SOON!)
Rule #2: There will never be a perfect time and there will always be reasons not to go, so now is the time to take the plunge.
There are so many reasons to travel and zero reasons to not!!
You will become richer in culture, diversity, adventure, knowledge, language, experience, opportunity, connections, friends, and gain a whole new perspective of yourself and the world.
Of course you can read a book. But you will not learn about the culture first hand. You will not get your own physical perspective and perception by sitting in your living room reading a book about Thailand. I think the best way is to travel and submerge yourself into another culture. Once you experience and understand cultural difference from a your own eyes, your perception and perspective of people who are different from you changes. You start to understand why they are different from you, why they wear a hijab, why the conserve energy, why they use a toilet or shower outside, why they attend a mosque, temple or church and you begin to have a better understanding of where people are coming from and why they do things a different way. In retro-spec, people from other cultures think the same thing about you! “Your weird” “Why do you do things the way that you do?”
What’s more adventurist than packing your bags to go to a place you know nothing about (besides the books you may have read or the google searches you did)? Nothing!! Traveling has given me some of the greatest adventures and memories of my life. When your somewhere you’ve never been there 1,000,000,000,000,000 things to see that you’ve never seen and that many more people to meet. The possibilities are endless!!
Knowledge & Perspective
There is obviously so much to learn about a place you know nothing about! Its always a great thing when you can insert and digest new and interesting information. You learn not just about the culture, the food, the language, the people but you’ll meet so many people who will have so much knowledge to give and experiences to share. I really believe if you could spend a 1/2 of a lifetime traveling and gaining new experiences and learning , that you could be more educated than one who spends 4 years in college. In addition to that, once you really start traveling you will not look at the world, object, people or even yourself the same. Suddenly, the new Iphone 7 or latest trend, isn’t so important anymore. After attempting to place all your belongings for 1-2-3 months or longer into one hiking backpack, your life will never be the same again. Whether traveling or moving abroad, you will learn invaluable lessons and make everlasting memories.
Immerse yourself in a new culture, with new food and a new language. Believe it or not, it’s been pretty easy to pick up the basics along the way. If you want to learn Spanish or German, French or Afrikanns, immerse yourself in the language and you will pick up more than you thought was possible with ease.
As I have gotten older I have transitioned to enjoying and appreciating experience and memories rather than materialistic things. That is not to say that I don’t like nice things, because I do. If given the option between an adventure or going to a place I’ve never been (or maybe I have) and the newest pair of Louboutin heels or Air Jordans, I am undoubtedly going to choose the experience. These experiences will create memories that can’t be compared to materialistic things.
TIP: If money is your issue for not traveling, stop buying materialistic things for 1 year -clothes and shoes you want, but don’t need, Starbucks coffee every morning, restaurant brunch and dinners. Buy essential items, splurge every now and then (or not) and at the end of the year you will undoubtedly accumulate enough money to travel somewhere.
Lesson I learned from my mom: When my mom worked in the corporate world, she would call everyday on her lunch break. Her co-workers would always walk downstairs to get coffee from the Starbucks under her building, but she would never buy coffee. One day I asked her, “Why do you keep walking to Starbucks but never get coffee?” She said, “I’m saving money!” I said, ” It’s only $6″ and she said “Yes, $6 a day is $30 a week (5 working days), $30 a week is $120 a month, and $120 a month is $1,440 a year, and that’s my trip to Greece!!”
Opportunities & Connections
You never know what you may run into or who you might meet. On my trip to Amsterdam, I managed to start a group of 3 which turned into a group of 15 in a matter of days. 15 people from different countries and we managed to cover all 7 continents. I’ve already made friends around the world and that was only in 5 days, imagine how many connections you can make in weeks, months even years. Now I have even more places to visit and people to see and show me around. Nothing gets better than exploring a city or town with the locals. My best times are always with the locals. You get to see the “real” and less of the Americanized-tourist scenes.